On Monday I had the day off, so I spent the day shopping with Chris and then planning and doing school related things for the rest of the day. Waste of time? Besides the shopping, I'd say so, yes. A lot of the school related things are probably truly unnecessary, but they're getting done now, rather than later.
On Tuesday, Chris and I went out for dinner after work and then came home and decided to play board games together rather than get anything else done. Pro: I spent some much needed time with Chris. Con: I got nothing else accomplished that night.
On Wednesday through Friday, every day after work I was consumed by Netflix, watching United States of Tara, with Chris. We fully watched seasons 2 & 3. Wasted time, again, by watching TV. But, I spent the time with Chris. On Friday I came home from school earlier than usual because I'm now sick with a head cold. Due to my sickness, my weekend time off didn't really help me accomplish anything. We did decide to go visit relatives last minute on Saturday, and spent the whole day with them...so on Saturday, I accomplished nothing. And on Sunday, I was feeling my worst, so I did some laundry (SUCCESS!), lots of blogging (I wrote some guest posts for another blog and this post), and school related planning for the week.
Overall, I've realized I'm super lazy and I'm not following my schedules and routines that I've previously established for myself. Time to reevaluate. It's a new time in my life with a new job and no schooling (college courses). It's a new year. I need to decide what is important to me and how I'm going to ensure that I'm happy at home.
This week we're going to look at what we consider to be important to ourselves. How exactly would you like to be spending your time? If you didn't download this week's printable last week, go ahead and do so below. Write down the things you'd like to spend your time doing on a daily/weekly basis.
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| how I'd like to spend my time |
I spend a lot of my time at school. I go in early and stay until 5:30 on most days. It's my choice to do this, and eventually it will cut down as I start to feel good about how my room looks. (I'm still working on the environment and organizing.) I chose not to include school on my time tracker because I know I'm not wasting time there. But now that I'm thinking about it, if I were to leave school even an hour earlier, I'd have more time to do things at home that I want to do. Chris gets home from work around 5:30, so I'm not missing out on time at home with him when I leave at 5:30 each day (I luckily only live 1/2 a mile down the street from my school).
My priority worksheet is below. I don't have a lot that I'd like to do at home each day/week. I listed everything, and then (in the right column) numbered each task/experience in the order of importance. I only wrote down things I want to do. I didn't write down anything that I felt I should do. The things I have to do will be placed into my daily schedule accordingly - these are all things I want to do because they're important to me.
I've been doing a great job with my first priority - spending time with Chris. Planning for school hasn't been an issue - but I do spend too much time doing this. I feel like I don't get to spend enough time blogging during the week. Cleaning and organizing my home hasn't been something I've been very good at lately, but I want to do it and get back into a habit/routine with it. I love being online and reading the blogs I subscribe to, checking my email, searching Pinterest...so I don't want to give it up. But it needs to be focused on a lot less in my day/week, so it's lower on the priority scale. And then lastly, I have reading (books and magazines). I never get to do this. I have so many magazines that end up going in the trash, unread, because I'm months behind. I want to read more, so I think it's important to put it on my list.
Assess what's important to you and prioritize the items on your list. I will be back on Wednesday (this week) with a post on creating schedules and routines. Save this worksheet - you'll need it for Wednesday's post. (You may also want to save the time tracking worksheet as well.)
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